Sometimes people say they don't understand what their lover or spouse is thinking. But isn't it wrong to expect the other person to think like you?
The other day I heard an interesting story about the differences between men and women. Accordingly, in some situations, the way men and women think and act is quite different. Please read and guess which side a) and b) is about men and which side is about women.
1. About shopping — a) Everyday food costs 200 yen but if it's 100 yen, buy it even if you don't need it. b) If a dish that normally costs 100 yen costs 200 yen, you can still buy it if you need it.
2. About the future — a) Until marriage, always worry about the future. b) Until you get married, don't worry about the future.
3. About marriage — a) Hope the other person will change, but the other person will not change. b) Hope the other person doesn't change, but the other person changes.
So a) and b), which side is male and which side is female, can you recognize right away? It is said that a) is female and b) is male. Indeed, looking at yourself and the people around you, it's true. Perhaps we should think that men and women are inherently different.
Because the other person is different from you, it's better to think that if you don't make efforts to bridge the differences, you can't build a good relationship.